Monday, February 10, 2014

QUESTIONS ABOUT DATING!!

Please write your questions below this (on the comment section)!!

28 comments:

  1. Hello, this is pastor Julian, please add your question to this section!!

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  3. My question is I'm interested in someone at school but he's not a christian. I think he's interested in me too. So what should I do?

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  4. is it okay to date around until you found someone you are interested in?

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  5. how can you discern and measure someone's maturity before you jump into a relationship?

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  6. how can I tell the person that i'm seeing is the right person for me?

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  7. knowing that the guy should be the spiritual leader in a relationship, how much stronger do you have to be in your faith, compared to the girl, to have that kind of leadership role where she is encouraged and growing, and im growing as well? also, is it possible to still have a healthy relationship when both are similar in their level of faith and maturity?

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  8. is it ok to not tell anyone at church when I date?

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  9. How involved should I be in my partner's spiritual life? Should we be doing daily devotionals or evangelism together? What about accountability?

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  10. What does a Christian dating relationship look like in everyday life?
    What are the differences in boundaries of dating compared to marriage?

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  11. Under the assumption that both parties are faithful Christians, what are legitimate reasons to break up with your significant other? What are guidelines you should follow to break-up with someone without breaking up with them for selfish reasons, i.e. they're not good-looking enough

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  12. What does a healthy Christian dating relationship look like? Over time, how can you measure "growth" in your relationship together? How can you determine if your relationship is edifying both to God and to the people around you?

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  13. Are we supposed to be actively looking for a spouse, or wait for God to bring a spouse to us?

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  14. What qualities should you look for in a girl and what qualities should you look for in a guy before dating?

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  15. What are good questions to ask yourself and the other person to gage each other's maturity to date?

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  16. If my dating partner has had sex with an ex and there's still feelings left, should i encourage them to be together similar as if they had been divorced?

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  17. Should I be looking for a spouse from within the church before i look other places?

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  18. What constitutes a marriage under God? i.e. does a marriage have to be preformed by an ordain pastor? If so, what are common law,/state marriages considered.

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  19. If you're a christian do we have to limit ourselves to ONLY dating other christians?

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  20. How should members who are dating, when together in the presence of the church body, act? e.g. signs of affection, endearments, holding hands, sitting next to each other.
    i.e. How do you balance being sensitive to other church members who aren't dating, while trying to encourage an example of biblical courtship.

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  21. Should the church be active in getting to know our members' s/o? What degree does leadership play in checking on those members growth while dating.

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  22. Would Pastor Julian ever officiate our members marriage? ;)

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  23. Is same-sex marriage considered a marriage? Will pastor Julian officiate a same sex-wedding?

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  24. Would flirtatious/flattering remarks be considered unrighteous behavior?

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  25. What are legitimate reasons for Christian couples to break up?

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